Friends

in life, we get to meet many ppl whom we will call friends. some are temporarily and some will stay with u for ur whole life. its sad though, when u thought that u have made a life long frd, and yet, they turn out to be just passer-by for a period of time in ur life time. very often, i think a lot abt this issue.

i used to have a frd whom i call my best frd. we have known each other for ages. there were thgs abt her that i envy, and vis versa. however, we were inseperatable for a long time. it was until i decided to go into the entertainment biz. she didnt think tat it was a wise choice as entertainment biz is so called complicated. we started to grow apart due to my busy schedule. once in a while i will try to meet up with her. until, i realised tat she has become too insupportive. maybe i was too sensitive over it. but gradually, i stopped talking to her abt my work. and since tat phrase of my life is all abt work, i hardly tok at all when we meet. time passed, and she has a family. i was still single, and worst still, a workaholic. the topics that we can talk abt become very superficial. i couldnt relate to topics abt family, parents-in-law, babies. soon, we dun even meet up... a few months back, she invited me to tea with some common frds. as usual, i just ask abt their life, keeping quiet abt mine. only when they asked, then i introduce my company to them. hoping that they can also help me by recommanding my company to other ppl should they meet ppl who need my service. i was taken aback when she told me, somethg along that line, 'aiya, i dun need ur card la. give me also no use. there is no one to intro to." it was not as if i purposely wanted her to do the work of introduction to me. i merely told her that should her frds require my service, pls help me by recommanding. haiz.. ever since then, i nv seen her again. it is so hard to maintain this frdship... i dun even know if it is even counted as one. there were so many times that she has put me down. i know that if i treat her the same way, our frdship will end. but is there a point to keep a frd who is simply insensitive abt ur feelings, who was once, ur best frd...

yet, i know of some frds, who will stand by ur side to help or give u support when u need it. im lucky that i do have some frds like tat. and on my part, i hope tat i have nv taken advantage of them unknowingly. these are the frds tat i truly love and appreciate. altough time does not allow us to meet freqently, we share a tight bonding within this frdship. and i really want to thank all those who have been there for me all these while.